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Immm..

2006-09-10T10:49:00.000-07:00

When the night has been to lonely and the road has been too long
and you think that love is only for the lucky and strong

Just remember that in the winter, far beneath the bitter snow
Lies the seed that WITH the the sun's LOVE
in the SPRING becomes the ROSE

A trip to gods abode

2006-08-06T00:37:00.000-07:00

Its a year of dreams coming true in terms of trips..

1) Europe

2) Amritsar

Thank you god !!

Too often

2006-08-06T00:26:00.000-07:00

Too often we don't realize what we have until it is gone;
Too often we wait too late to say"I'm sorry - I was wrong.

"Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones we hold dearest to our hearts;
And we allow foolish things to tear our lives apart.

Far too many times we let un important things into our minds;
And then it's usually too late to see what made us blind.

So be sure that you let people know how much they mean to you;
Take that time to say the words before your time is through

-- Author unknown

Its tough to stick to the above...join the race i have already begun

Sometimes!!

2006-08-06T00:22:00.000-07:00

Sometimes - lyrics by Lobo

I can’t recall the color of her eyes
But I remember the way she said goodbye
I wouldn’t know her voice now if she called
I hardly ever think of her at all.

But sometimes if the moon is just right
I think of her in the middle of the night
And I remember things that I swore I’d forget And then I drive her right out of my mind

Sometimes I think her hair was soft and brown I do know that she turned my whole world upside down

Hey, I don’t need her any now
And I don’t miss her too much now
Sometimes when things are perfect I forget the way we were

And sometimes a whole minute passes by That I don’t think of her
A.M.A.Z.I.N.G lyrics only for those who can understand

Lonely..!!

2006-05-10T04:33:00.000-07:00

You learn that survival isn’t so much about rebuilding as about retrieving and taping together with band-aids …dreams, emotions and you.

You learn how to be ruthless, how to be cruel, how to be cold and how to be callous and
you even learn to stop feeling bad about it

But you never learn how to stop being lonely..... :-)

Why did I do, what I did?

2006-04-24T21:29:00.000-07:00

I don’t know what made me do it ?
What made me want the answer in Black & White,
What made me put an end to me living in the illusionary, the dreamy, the beautiful, the so so comforatble world I had built
And then suddenly I stumbled on the answer…...

You’ve got to fight for every dream
Coz who is to know, which one u let go
Would’ve made u complete

Atleast I tried, and at the end of it all ….he who refuses is at loss and not the one who asked. :-)

Irony..

2006-04-22T10:09:00.000-07:00

The fact is that nobody is indespensable, and the irony is that everyone wants to be indespensable.
Kudos!!
:-)

Quickie

2006-04-21T04:24:00.000-07:00

You Should Learn Chinese

Surprised? You shouldn't be - Chinese is perfect for an ambitious person like you.
You're a natural entrepreneur, and a billion people are waiting to do business with you!

What Language Should You Learn?

Have been contemplating since long on which language should i learn.....My boss says CHinese would rock..personally i think Spanish would be the one ......As usual the boss is always R.I.G.H.T and even this callous, unkind, mean, test wants to me to take up CHINESE........:-(

:-(

P.E.R.S.O.N.A.L.I.T.Y ...test

2006-04-21T04:12:00.000-07:00

Your Personality Profile

You are pure, moral, and adaptable.You tend to blend into your surroundings.Shy on the outside, you're outspoken to your friends.
You believe that you live a virtuous life...And you tend to judge others with a harsh eye.As a result, people tend to crave your approval.

The'>http://www.blogthings.com/worldsshortestpersonalitytest/">The World's Shortest Personality Test

Wise words

2006-02-22T04:39:00.000-08:00

Someone said to me ......
"Love will make you forget time, and time will make you forget love."

How true my friend, was it so evident on my face that i was trying to forget .......trying to let go let go of ..something very close, very near, very dear- literally a part of me, feelings which i had-- which were never reciprocated, feelings which shouldn't have but still existed...
I am proud that i am ready to forget because deep within i always knew that i would have to.....maybe it din't happen because deep down within i never believed that it would....

"Giving up does not mean you are weak
It means you are strong enough to let go..."

Nice Quizzie

2006-02-16T02:43:00.000-08:00

You are the color pink. As a beautiful and sweet
human, you are everybody's favorite person.
Healthy and energetic, you're often seen
spreading the happines. As an unusually
charming and sweet person, you're always
ready to comfort people who are down. You
sympathize with everyone, but not always
yourself. Aside from that, you are
light-hearted and cheery. And you make it
your duty to make every cloud have

What color are you? (Amazingly detailed & accurate--with pics!)
brought to you by

NaTuRe..!!

2006-01-27T21:41:00.000-08:00

BiiiiiG Hugs are universal MeDiCine...

Mom's the BeSt....!!

Just common OvEr...!!

Random thoughts..

2006-01-27T05:12:00.000-08:00

We love those who have no expectations from us ..!!

When you give up a wish, you rise above it, and then it seeks you
Giving up does not mean that you are weak..it means you are strong enough to LEt Go.....

Destiny and Choice

2006-01-13T21:15:00.000-08:00

For failed relationships, for broken hearts, for those waiting times, for those who have been lucky enough to find love, for those who are making a begining and those drifting towards the end each one gets what he or she is destined to get but do we have the patience to wait for nature to take its way,to give us what we are destined to?? or do we make a choice because we have to and can no longer wait.
All of us often make a choice by giving in to social pressures, insecurity, family pressure and thus land up making a choice which was a bad one and then blame it to our destiny.....well that does not mean one does make a choice, it means that one should not choose just because one has to, or because someone wants us to make that choice...but take make a choice by keeping in mind that ..The choice you make determines your destiny!!
So, hang on.. wait up dont force your self into a decision.

Boys are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The girls don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground, that aren't as good, but easy.So the apples at the top think that there is something wrong with them, when in reality, they are amazing. That is why we just have to be a little patient and the right girl, the one who takes a chance to find the good, right apple, will come someday...

Very True

2006-01-06T04:28:00.000-08:00

Read this piece somewhere makes a lotta sense

What a Friend Means

In kindergarten,
your idea of a good friend was the person who gave you the red
crayon when all that was left was the ugly black one.

In first grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who went to the bathroom
with you and held your hand as you walked through the scary halls.

In second grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who helped you
stand up to the class bully.

In third grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who shared lunch with you when you forgot yours on the bus.

In fourth grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who was willing to switch square dancing partners in gym so you wouldn't have to be stuck
do-si-doing with Nasty Nathan or Smelly Sara.

In fifth grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who saved a seat
on the back of the bus for you.

In sixth grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who went up to
Nathan or Sara, your new crush, and asked them to dance with you,
so that if they said no you wouldn't have to be embarrassed.

In seventh grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who let you copy the
previous night's social studies homework just before class.

In eighth grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who helped you pack up your stuffed animals and old baseball cards so that your room would be a "high schooler's" room, but didn't laugh when you finished
and broke out into tears.

In ninth grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who went with you to that "cool" party thrown by a senior so that you wouldn't wind up being
the only freshman there.

In tenth grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who changed their schedule so you would have someone to sit with at lunch.

In eleventh grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who gave you rides
in his new car, convinced your parents that you shouldn't be grounded,consoled you when you broke up with Nathan or Sara,
and found you a date to the prom.

In twelfth grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who helped you pick out a college, assured you that you would get into that college, helped you deal with your parents who were having a hard time adjusting
to the idea of letting you go…

At graduation,
your idea of a good friend was the person who was crying on the inside but managed the biggest smile one could give as they congratulated you.

The summer after twelfth grade,
your idea of a good friend was the person who helped you clean up the bottles from that party, helped you sneak out of the house when you just couldn't deal with your parents, assured you that now that you and Nathan or you and Sara were back together, you could make it through anything, helped you pack up for college and just silently hugged you as you looked through blurry eyes at 18 years of memories you were leaving behind, and finally, on those last days of childhood,went out of their way to come over and send you off with a hug, a lot of memories, reassurance that you would make it in college as well as you had these past 18 years, and most importantly sent you off to college knowing that you were loved.

Now,
your idea of a good friend is still the person who give you the better of two choices,
holds your hand when your scared,
helps you fight off
those who take advantage of you,
thinks of you at times when you are not there,
reminds you of what you have forgotten, helps you put the
past behind you,
but understands when you need to hold onto it a little longer,
stays with you so that you have confidence,
goes out of their way to make time for you, helps you clear up your mistakes,
helps you deal with pressure from others, smiles for you when they
are sad, helps you become a better person,
and most importantly,loves you!

My addition: A friend is someone does not cut your wings by showing you sympathy but enables you to fly high. (Sympanthy v/s Empathy)

Hum, rahen ya na rahen kal

Kal yaad aayenge ke ye pal

Pal, ye hain pyar ke pal

Chal, aa mere sang chalChal,

soche kya Chhoti si, hai zindagi

Kal, mil jaaye to hogi khush-naseebi

Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

Nice one !!

2006-01-04T21:26:00.000-08:00

The world is coming closer but in bargain its taking us farther from our loved ones.

I feel, this internet boom is taking us away from our family and loved ones who are with us no doubts that its also taking us close to the loved ones who are away from us.
One has to maintain balance between the two..otherwise the following may happen soon.......

New YEar a NeW Awtaar !!

2006-01-01T10:23:00.000-08:00

A toast to all that went past by and to all that is yet to come !! -- Cheers!! Happy new Year

Thank you GOD for taking us to it and through it and we seek thy blessings for the year to come --Amen

Beer .....

2005-12-28T20:05:00.000-08:00

A small chat with a friend leads me to get some gyan about Beer...Here is some of it worth sharing and a picture which suits the best.
"Beer is God's way of telling us he love us" and If that's true the morning's wretchedness is the stark reminder that we're not with the big guy yet; no matter how much we feel like we're on the way!

And all i can say is that
"It's truly amazing what the simple fermentation of sugars can do to carbon-based life forms."

Cheers!!

Amazing Adv.

2005-12-23T11:24:00.000-08:00

What a smart way to convey the message....

Touching!!

2005-12-23T10:56:00.000-08:00

If only people could understand what this picture means then the world would turn Vegetarian this very moment.!!

Tarot ..

2005-12-17T10:07:00.000-08:00

Always wanted to try out Tarot actually wanted to learn it never got a chance tough.
Well got a reading done today courtesy Laju ben :-)

Lady: Hi, you can ask three questions are you prepared.
Me: Not really but ok will manage, its my first time (*wink)
Lady: Ok, Shoot girl.
Me:What about my career should i change lines or rather will i prosper in what i am doin?
Lady: Be more specific girl do you want to ask about changing lines or how r ur prospects in the current line.
Me: Ok, prospects in the current line.
Lady: Lets say prospects for the coming year
She concentrates shuffles the cards .....closes her eyes pulls out one ...all i can interpret after looking at the that it has many yellow stars.
Lady: Well next year things will be great lottsa money coming your way.
Me: Blushing, happy dint even want to listen to anything else
Lady: Question 2?
Me: Tell me will the guy i like, like me too..will things happen
Lady: Concentrates, closes her eyes .....shuffles the cards..opens her eyes asks me ARE YOU READY....
Me: Yes
Lady: Pulls out three cards, arranges them in a specific manner can't make out much
says ..pursue it like a goal don't let things be laid out thinking that it will happen if it has to put in effort if you want it to happen pursue it like any other goal aim for it.
Me: Dumbstruck, don't know what to say to her.
Lady: Girl, Question 3 ?
Me: Don't know what to ask.
Lady: You don't have anything to ask????
Me:Nah, nothings coming to my mind at this moment..Can you suggest something
Lady: Dumstruck surprised this girl doesn't have a third question to ask>?>
Are you sure you don't have any other question.
Me: No, can't think of any...:-(
Lady: Ok, lets do it for your overall prospects, life, health, money, luck.....OK ..lets see what message the cards want to convey to you.
Me: OK, DONE
Lady: Concentrates, closes her eyes, shuffles the cards..opens her eyes removes one card.
Me: Reads The EMPeRESS, i think its a good card ....looked good
Lady: SIGH, dont worry girl its a gr8 card you have evrything a good life, good health, good carrer, good money...but only what you have in our mind is a block a block telling you that you can't have all of this in your life..REmove that block and all will be fine............
Me: Relieved happy, glad ..Just needed a AFFIRMATION ..and i received it today..!!
Thanks to the Tarot lady..her name reads Kashmira Shaw...Thank you lady and thank you to the cards..for the MESSAGE that was really nice...:-)

Nice experience tough...
Adios, until next time.

Lesson well Learnt.!!

2005-12-14T20:16:00.000-08:00

I have learned there is little I can do
in my life that will make me truly happy.

I must depend on God to make
me happy and to meet my needs.
When a need arises in my life,
I have to trust God to supply
according to HIS riches.

I have learned most of the time
I don't need half of what I think I do.

He has never let me down.
Since I learned that 'Secret', I am happy."

Life is what happens to you when you are busy making other plans!!!

Beauty and the Beast..

2005-12-06T09:02:00.000-08:00

Wow what a way to begin one's mornining.....An early morning meeting with, Ms Selfish.....It is 8:47 a.m ..the 8:44 local is 3 mins late 6 women stand on near the ladies first class ...as the train arrives they all crowd together to board the train ..
Its too crowded... 2 ladies get off.... all of us rush to get in ...i am supposed to be the third one to get in, when suddenly is see 2 skool children wanting to get down..... i stop intentionally so that they could get down first and there is this B**** who just pushes me, pushes them not letting them get down .. All she does is push trying to convey that it is more important that she board the train and reach her destination than for the skool children to get down at their platform...These are the type of people i classify as selfish mongers..!!
All they think about is them, their life, their happiness, their convinience...

Another instance, this B**** is resting on the compartment side...Unfortunetly some lady in the compartment faints the other ladies make her sit, somone offers water, somone gives her mint, they clear the seat for her to sit, somone offers to call her family ...All for humanity ..These are the people whom i call the Concerned kinds..!!

I just happen to glance at this B**** i saw her straining her neck to look across the compartment too inquiste and concerned to find out what is wrong and after having a look all she could do was SMILE!! ....I was shocked could'nt beleive how sick people can be, how insensitive can they be, how disgusting...
Thats when i realised that... One cannot judge a person by his outer beauty.......... more than the outer self what matters is the what lies within the individual the inner beauty and one can sense such things by the actions of people and not by their physical appearance....

As Big B is in the hospital ...one of his songs!!
Hum Kaale Huae to Kya Hua Dilwale hain....
Tere tere tere chahane wale hain....
llalala..........
Adios!!!

Making a Conscious EffOrT...!!

2005-12-05T01:02:00.000-08:00

Smile through your troubles!! ----Never really understood the meaning of the saying ...maybe I never really thought of implementing it..... blame to my fixed notions...that if you are upset, if things are not turning your way, if life's not giving you what you want ..then you have to brood.

But just having a long chat with Deepa last week made me stress my brain (in the right area) a little longer ....
I thought that I have two choices on how I could react to my troubles (so called troubles)
One was what I have been doing right throughout the last 6 months ....to be unhappy, to crib, to cry,to pity myself....etc..
and the other one was to smile through them.

Rationalizing, I thought that my troubles wont become less or disappear by making a sorry face, or by being upset, or crying.. so rather I be happy and face them, maybe that would help..!!
SO,
Last week was implementation week...had loads of work, had a tiff with a colleague, don't remember other stuff...rather I choose not to remember it....but it was BLISS......had loads of fun.... hanging out with friends at nite (deadline is 11 but even mom spared me for 2 days walked in at 11:30), socializing with cuzs, going to the ashram,attending a wedding, sitting online catching up with ppl, and all this besides the fact that it was a working sat and i was working for more than 10 hours daily....guess what I even managed to go to the gym....BOSS it was a very happy week ....with all the issues and troubles it was still the best one in the last 6 months.

Boy, I have decided to live like this and PUT IN AN EFFORT TO BE HAPPy from now on...Life is going to be a bed of roses ...thorns will keep pricking ....but the fragrance and the beauty should always be there ....making Happiness a conscious effort...
(** Hope I can stick by this through and through)

Ideal song..........
Haste haste kat jaaye raste
zindagi yuhin chalti rahe
khushi mile ya ghum
badlenge na hum
duniya chahe badlti rahe

...W.H.E.N.....

2005-11-30T09:54:00.000-08:00

All i find myself nowadays is being impatient, irritable, upset...!!
When will i grow up...When will i just be at peace...When will i stop cribbing about how things are not right..how things could be better....i just want to stop..i just want to stop being a baby ...a spoilt brat who gets everything she wants...i just want to wait for my chance, my gifts, my love ...i just want to enjoy ..to laugh ...to be fearless..to be confident....
I WANT TO BE MYSELF..MY OLD SELF.....and i promise myself that i will be.....:-)

Just a swet poem!!

2005-09-15T05:24:00.000-07:00

Just a sweet poem

When things go wrong, as they sometmes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but do not quit.

Life is a queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out:
Don't give up though the pace seems slow-----
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and falttering man,
Often the struggler has give up,
When he might have captured the victor's cup,
And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out-----
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to fight when you're hardest hit---
It's when things seem worst that one must not quit.

Creeper = Me = Tall tree

2005-08-14T03:51:00.000-07:00

The transition from being a creeper to being a tall tree.-(Nature has much to teach us only if we are open to learning).

Creeper:
Seen that creeper in your Veranda how its just wants some support to grow to live (the name says it all)..
That support for him forms his basis of survival. If he gets the right support then he can blossom and just keep spreading its periphery.
What importance do these creepers get in their society the only importance they get is from the support they are clinging to but this is just a phase after a period of time the support becomes bored by having the same creeper around him for years and thinks that the creeper can't survive if the support lets go.
At this phase they both start having fights and one day the creeper looses heart, cries and falls off. Another new creeper attaches itself to the support and they live happily ever after.

At parallels

Imagine the tall tree it grows tall and big and huge but stands with dignity it grows to give protection, shelter fruits but it chooses to give unlike the creeper who chooses to cling.
How did it become a tall tree of course somebody cared for it, fed it, nurtured it and taught it to become selfless.

I want to be like that be as tall as the tree as caring as the tree as selfless as I can be. But that doesn’t mean that the tree doesn’t not need to be cared for.
It converts the care it receives into something which benefits umpteen number of beings on this earth.
(One needs to have both creepers and tall trees to make the environment look beautiful)

I couldn't think of a better message for Independence Day...Liberate yourself first and then try to spread, or preach, an awareness of Liberation.

Its not circumstances which make you change.
Circumstances are created by the lord so that we change.

Mehki Hawaon Mein
Mehki Hawaon Mein
Chaaron Dishaon MeinNikla Main Azad Hoke
Manzil Meri Jaane Kahan Hai Mujhko Nahin Hai Pata
Dil Kahe Jhoom Loon Aasmaan Choom Loon
Dil Kahe Jhoom Loon Aasmaan Choom Loon
Beete Din Tanhayee Ke
Masti Ke Pal Aaye Hai
Yaaron Is Deewane Ki Khushiyaan Wapis Laye Hai
Mujko Un Veerano MeinLaut Ke Jaana Nahin
..
Will getting too much Adios!!

Struggle....!!!

2005-08-12T07:06:00.000-07:00

My struggle with today seems to be worthwhile ...but IT just doesn't seem to END.

I am sure one day its going to Pay off
But that day seems to be Far off ..

Zindagi Kaisi Hai Paheli Haaye
Kabhi To Hasaye
Kabhi Yeh Rulaye
Kabhi Dekho Man Nahin JaagePeeche Peeche Sapnon Ke Bhaage
Nis Din Sapnon Ka RahiChala Jaaey S
apnon Ke Aage Kahan

Zindagi Kaisi Hai Paheli Hai
Jinhon Ne Sajaye
Yahan MeleSukh Dukh Sang Sang Jhele
Wohi Sunkar KhamoshiYoon C
hale Jaaey Akele Kahan
Zindagi Kaisi Hai Paheli Hai..!!!!

Adios till next time

In Coversation with my Inner Voice!!!

2005-08-06T08:50:00.000-07:00

In Coversation with my Inner Voice!!!

Hari: How many of us really listen to our inner voice

Inner Voice: Huh hari everybody does

Hari: oh really...

Inner Voice: Yeah sure

Hari: Doesn't seem like because I don’t see people being torn into two halves that often?

Inner Voice: What do you mean

Hari: Recently I have been ignoring what you tell me and sometimes I feel very guilty (Ok all the time) that I don’t listen to you because for me to be happy you and I both have to be happy. For how long can pretend to be happy...
Maybe I am just saying it the other way....Its not pretending …Its ignoring you that makes me worried and unhappy …(not that patient to listen to you completely I just listen to the first half and leave the other, a’int I)
I am scared of ignoring you because I feel one day you will stop guiding me telling me how you feel and maybe that someday I might be needing you the most.

Inner Voice: Hey I won’t stop telling you I promise but remember that you might stop listening ....and then you might blame me for not talking to you.

Hari: I want you to always be there and understand that I am not ignoring you but just waiting for the right moment to use your advice just give me some time I swear. We need to work together for me to prosper and be happy

Inner Voice: I will never leave you but with age you will be so used to someone blabbering stuff to you from within .That you might turn a deaf ear towards me. It won't be your fault dear but it happens to all.. Haven’t you got used to elders scolding you and now you tend to just turn a deaf ear towards them ..Even if they are talking sense.

Hari: Oh! Yes I get your point ...and as you said it a’int going to be my fault too...
.Is there any way that I can stop myself to reach to that stage.
You know what I mean, right? -- A stage where I will always be vigilant and sharp to listen to what you say and apply it as and when the time comes.

Inner Voice: Fortunately for you ...there is a way? Do you want to listen to it?

Hari: Of course, Out with it !!!

Inner Voice: Okie listen carefully—3 Simple steps!!!

1) Practice concentration....Keep sharpening it ..i.e. You should be able to do your work in a noisy room as efficiently and skillfully as you could have done it in a quiet room.

2) Meditation … Start doing your Twin heart meditation again and also do your affirmations..That will help you perform better and give you a lot of peace.

3) write…Whenever you hear me telling you something. I want you to write it down ...and remember once you have written anything you will never forget ,,,,,and even tough tomm...you turn deaf to me these writings will remind you of me and then suddenly you shall find yourself in sync with me.

Hari: Wow I am going to enjoy the writings part and also start doing the affirmations!!!
Thanx so much its a big worry outta my head ....a gift for you!!
Gurudakshna..right?

I affirm that I shall write what my Inner Voice tells me on this blog (or in my diary) at least once a week and also try my best to adapt and apply what I hear from I.V.(that’s his nick name) to my physical life and surroundings!!

Okie...as far as a song goes...

Dedicated to …IV…

Aye IV.. tere bande hum

Ayese ho humaare karam nekee par chale,

aaur badee se tale,

taankee hasate huye nikale dam

Ye andheraa ghanaa chhaa rahaa,

teraa insaan ghabaraa rahaaho rahaa bekhabar,

kuchh naa aataa najar,

sukh kaa sooraj chhoopaa jaa rahaahai teree roshanee mein jo dam to amaawas ko kar de poonam

Badaa kamajor hain aadamee,

abhee laakhon hain is mein kameepar too jo khadaa,

hain dayaaloo badaa,

teree kirapaa se dharatee thamee
diyaa toone humei jab janam too hee zelegaa hum sab ke gam ….

Adios IV……………(TC…and Muah)(***Nice dedication …!!!)

....Keep...The ...FAITH..!!

2005-06-05T09:01:00.000-07:00

You can make your dreams come true, like falling in love, becoming rich, staying healthy, if you ask for it by faith.
Well these are the few words that i really really believe in ..
Having faith..the most crucial of all teh words.... sometimes it so happens that i get very impatient:IMpatient with my self, with situations which i have no hold over ....Perrinial problem is that i just can't wait for things to happen in their own pace and so every night when i pray to the lord ..i tell him to keep the faith alive to keep me going to make me more patient give me the strength to wait for the moment when all shall work out..or it would even be alrite if it dint provided i still have faith ..and i want teh faith to remain, remain and remain with me forever because the day you loose hope, you are a dead man...the day you forget to dream, you have not inspired the lord to give you something better...Its kinda difficult when things dont turn my way, the way i expected them to i become unhappy ..to hear a No for anything that i ask for, get a No for somethings that i expect. That No just breaks my heart, makes me unhappy and so for my own good i have stopped asking, asking for things i am scared i will be said a BIG no for ...and so i say to the lord please give me, give me what you want to give me ...and i shall not ask.. and thts what i told jeena the other day that ..if i am destined to have MUSkmElon in my life ..i shall ...if the vibrations are strong they will find their way and if they dont then they werent meant to be there ......
Small things happening in our lives teach us big lessons ...but only if we want to learn...I am sure ill always keep learning !!!
Song for the day

Yunhi chala, chal raahi
Kitni haseen hai ye duniya

Phool saare jamele, dekh phoolon ke mele
Badi rangeen hai duniya
Dil ko hai kyun ye betaabi

Kis se mulaaqaat honi hai
Jis ka kabse armaan tha
Shaayad wahi baat honi hai

Jeevan gaadi hai samay paiya
Aansoon ki nadiya bhi hai
Khushiyon ki bagiya bhi hai
Rasta sab tera takke bhaiya

Swades !! is the movie
Adios!!

Relationships..

2005-03-03T07:18:00.000-08:00

The Beginning of every relationship is beautiful..all our relationships start in beauty,in sweetness, in harmony...but its the beginning .......
sooner or later things start to sour and the relationship starts falling apart.
Is it because in the beginning both partners just project and lay emphasis on each others so called good virtues ..what happens to these virtues down the line is a big question mark?
They disappear ..because our perception has changed and according to Relationship Law (Hari's law)
When things start going wornG then you just cannot put things right again.
Every relationship starts good and every relationship ends Bad ..no matter what you try.!!
One has to become aware of what the relationship is doing to
Is it uplifting the way we live thy life
or
Is it pulling thy down.
The moment you.... you feel you are being pulled down, believe me friends, Its time to quit.
Quit before its too late before you reach the ground and hurt yourself.
Analysis is the most crucial part..analyse
What is happening to the other person & yourself?
Are you making his/your life more miserable?
Are you giving him/youself pain?
Are you creating hell for him/yourself?
If YES.
....Then withdraw.....
Withdraw and stick by it..!!

Relationship should be a WIN - WIN situation for both.....
IF its not then ...ADIOS!!! to It.

FInally what really helps...is Learning the art of being alone ..enjoying your own company..AND being happie and At Peace with the WORLD..!!!

sONg for today's blog...
...SACRIFICE.!! Elton John

Cold cold heart
Hard done by you
Some things look better baby
Just passing through

And it’s no sacrifice
Just a simple word
It’s two hearts living
In two separate worlds
But it’s no sacrifice
No sacrifice
It’s no sacrifice at all

Mutual misunderstanding
After the fact
Sensitivity builds a prison
In the final act

..Adios!!!

.....Salaam.!! to the..brains behind this ...

2005-02-24T15:42:00.000-08:00

The print adv. is for a coil by Baygon
The adv. strikes a chord with me because of the element of humor it uses to convey the message...
When i first read the adv...a flash picture slid accross my mind
..Imagine.a mosquito smoking...!!!!!!
Hahahaha.......
This is one adv. i am not going to forget ...
At a serious note
What is the function/sole purpose of an advertisement??
To help Register a brand in such a way ..so that Brand Recall is not an effort...its pleasure/fun.
Can't get rid of my habit of thinking of analogies....So here i GO...
Just Imagine...
You are at Shopper's (thanx to the so called 50% off sale) with loads of stuff piled on your shoulder you make your way to the Trial room and just barge open the door..and there stands this guy trying to get out of his pants and you starring at his boxer undies .....and a you just smile smile and smile(u aren't sorry or surprised etc.) and smile.....and the Punch line reads.....
B.O.X.E.R.S's from Jockey...THE NEXT BEST THING TO NAKED

(****!!..what a amusing site .....)
Darn....would anyone ever forget this adv. ...especially MEN...never ..
Lesson time : Play with humor when you make an adv. or pick on things which one can never forget ..and the most difficult job of BRand recall becomes easy....

Sure u guys ..will remember my blog the next time your shopping at Shoppers Stop.....and guess wht i have done ..created..Recall for BRAND HARI....

Thats it for now
Adios.!!!

...check this one out..!!

2005-02-22T05:04:00.000-08:00

This is what i call

CReativity at its BEST..!!!

Save water ..guys..!!

Next post coming soon....

Adios..!!

Who says, The world has lost its Glory..?

2005-02-17T08:19:00.000-08:00

Its one of those rare days, today that i felt short of words to express my thanks to the God Almighty (for bringing Gyaan home in pink health ) and to some one who made my faith even stronger in him.
I just realised how difficult rather impossible for some people it is to put their faith on some body elses faith because for that u need to trust the person completely ..
Is trust directly propotional to the time spent or the position the person occupies in your life ..for me it has worked reverse ..i believe trust before you know---- have, develop the attitute to trust even before you have met the individual (isn't this the reason for internet chat rooms gaining importance)
The age old method of developing trust over others over a period of time is gone we are in the jet age ...according to me the new mantra is going to be Trust over i.e. have faith over the faith of the person whom you trust.
I am glad i did that and has made my bonding even stronger ...just in case you are wondering what i am talking about all this while
Parul (my gym pal-whom i call half mother) told me that go the Chota Siddhivinayak near my house and pray for gyaan and all my prayers will be answered ..so there i was yesterday morning and prayed and guess what ...gyan's back home in less than 12 hours of my prayers .....All this just makes your faith stronger in god and fellow beings ...and people say that The world has lost its glory .....Buddies this world will never loose its glory ...as long as faith,hope REMAIN.
I just want to thank Parul (she is not going to read this) for helping me to learn...LEARN how to trust in other people's Faith and Thank God for not letting me name it as Blind Faith.
My gift to her would be a paragraph from the song Strenght of a Woman --Shaggy and my prayer to God every night Bless such wonderful Human beings who make the world a better place to live in.......

Gentle words she softly speaks...
Such an angel when we need.....
GOD bless the ground beneath her feet
She can take you on a high....
Be your comfort when you cry.....
But if you look into her eyes
You'll see the strength of a woman......0000
Strength of a woman...!!!!!

Shall...we..DANCE...

2005-02-13T07:24:00.000-08:00

Saw the movie today afternoon but still cannot get over it..
Star cast...RICHARD GERE (no wunder i cannot get over it)...Jennifer Lopez (those curves rock babie).....the movie sets one's desires on fire ...
Richard's playin the role of a man who has a good job gr8 wife and children ..but isn't really happy (knw wht u thinking ...has a active sex life so stop racing those thoughts of yours)
He joins this dance class ...wch catches his eye whilst in a train n he spots lopez at the window and destiny pulls him to join the class....
It won't be justice to the makers of the movie nor to Lopez if continue with my saga of unfolding the full drama...A must watch for Dance Freaks who alwys wanted to learn (includes me no wonder i am going ..GA..ga..ga over it)
The message the movie conveys is worth ponderring on ...You may have everything you evEr wanted .....but are you really happy ....
what is happiness ...
(An agreeable feeling or condition of the soul arising from good fortune or propitious happening of any kind; the possession of those circumstances or that state of being which is attended enjoyment; the state of being happy; contentment; joyful satisfaction; felicity; blessedness.)....

I have this friend of mine..who has all one could ask for goes partyin, has a load full of friends(includes me aha..), has enough green, good lifestyle , handsome (most important), a gentleman, good values any girls dream guy...but yet when see him he doesnt seem to be happy(Chk the Definition i am sure u forgot what being happy actually means)
I just want to shake him up and tell him.... .. Hey dude please find out where your happiness lies ..open up talk dude...just talk...but you know men and egos..never will they let you know whats pushing them down even worse my friends a Leo ..the last thing he will do talk about stuff....so all you guys reading this please let down your ego not always but dont prick that nose of your too high that you can't see the ground so pull down sometimes for your own benefit.... might just help you ...!!!
....Today i s the lopez day tomm..is valentines so a song of hers (modified it a little pardon me for that, Miss..or should i say Mrs. ...umph....whatever, Lopez..!)
The way you looked at me
Tells me you want to talk
You walked by me..Smiling & acting happy
When I tried to hold (you) tight
You pulled away
But you wanted me to stay
Instead you ran away
Baby, talk to me let's stop playing games
Don't turn away from me
Just look me straight in the eyes
Don't try to sweet talk me With those nasty words you sayBaby, just be real and tell me how you feel
Ooh baby, come and talk to me
Together we can work this out..for you....!!
Ooh baby, just come and talk to me......

Hope i can write soon .....
P.s. the lyrics have been modified..a little too much as per my Convenience
ORIGINAL--Jennifer Lopez :: We Gotta Talk ___ J Lo album

...BRAND UNLEASHED .!!

2005-02-04T02:56:00.000-08:00

"Products are made in factories, strategies in boardrooms and brands in the hearts."

Have been hearing this for quiet some time now ...but never really thought about it untill the other day mom asked me Why is it that i need to wear socks (brand Nike!) when they cost three times the other socks do?...and thats when it dawned on me.....its the FEELING !!! ......
So as a bright marketere(wink) what i need to really do is create a brand A brand that people feel like wearing:
feel like making the brand a part of their lifes
brand they want to to be proudly associated with ......
Similarly, just putting a thought to it ...
AM I A BRAND TOOO....as an individual....trying to establish a place for myself in the hearts of people arround me....and just how with each brand comes in Layers of expectations ...do people expect from me toooo.(in layers) ....Its always a scary thing for a brand to full fill rather not being able to fulfill expectations ( have always heard ...U DINT LIVE UPTO MY EXPECTATIONS ).....
wht do we as users of such a so called Failed to live upto my expectations brand do Change brands ...and if i am such a brand its bloodcurdling to visualize that will people change me too (REPLACE is the right word) ....very bluntly as they substitute one brand with the other SUbstitute me too ..
Sure they will(TG's dialogue) ....with so many competitors comepetitng for the same position in the heart of the consumer.
Remedy : Do not promise more than what u can deliver ...otherwise EXPECTATIONS will keep rising and one day SUbstitutes shall take your place.

Rather ....Always SUrprise ..DELITE your consumers ....and never will your brand be SUBSTITUTED ..!!!!
DESTINY DECIDES WHOM YOU MEET IN YOUR LIFE ..BUT ITS HEART WHICH DECIDES WHO GETS TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE....!!

Bindaas bol...!!!

2005-01-31T08:45:00.000-08:00

The name says it all...bindaas likne ka ...zada sochne ka nahi ..kya?....
Its going to me more of to myself kind of blog more or retrospection going arroound this place and deep secrets shooting out .......so a very big hi to the inner writter,thinker,less of a listener....and AWAKEN SOUL ..welcome to the world of BLOG...